Body positivity challenge Day 12

How do you keep a positive self image?

After years of being bullied at school and not being able to look in the mirror and feel beautiful I now can look in it as much as I want and smile because I like my reflection now more than ever.

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Body positivity challenge Day 9

Today is all about letting your self go and not caring about a thing.

It was either singing or dancing and I thought miming would count too.

This video was the other night and yes that’s my fluffy pen I’m using as a microphone 😂

Please don’t judge me 😂

It’s the company you keep

I had a few hours out this afternoon sipping on my squash as still can’t have no alcohol. I really don’t mind – burnt my back in the process though… Silly girl.

Anyway I sat there in the garden of where I was drinking and I just appreciated the company I had around me. They are people that I’ve known most of my life. You know the times where you really laugh out loud and just feel yourself that was definitely this afternoon.

I really think if you keep good company you’ll always have happy times

I hope you’ve all had a fab Saturday.

Best get my head down on my pillow it’s nearly midnight… Night night xxx

Let’s start with sorry 🙈

I’m so sorry it’s been about a month since I last wrote on this blog that’s supposed to be a diary.

Do I make it a daily/weekly diary? I dunno. But I find writing therapeutic so I should make use of

The diary of a pinkaholic.

So keep your eyes peeled here and fingers crossed I’ll put as much goings on as I can.

It’ll be interesting I promise you 😘

Just a shortie…. Like me.

Lots of love xx

May Goals

I thought since I am feeling a bit better I should try and set some goals for this month


❤️ Start writing a page a night for my book I’m going to publish about anxiety and mental health.

❤️ Swap my winter wardrobe over for my summer onsombles.

❤️ Really pay attention to my skincare and keep to a daily routine ( I’ll keep you updated on the skin front)

❤️ Look for inspiration for giving my room a makeover – Pinterest is always a good place to start.

❤️ Take more photos and put some effort into my social media platforms. I don’t care about who likes it I just want to put good stuff out there for me, so I can see what I’ve done…like a memory timeline type thing.

❤️ Keep a positive head on because nobody gets anywhere with a negative attitude

There you go I think they will be manageable.

In a month you’ll know if I’ve conquered them all.

Much loves and I’ll see you in my next post.

When writing touches the heart

This is exactly how I feel like when I write, I want it to touch someone in one way or another. Never to make anyone cry of course but if it’s a lesson to be learnt or a story to make you aware I can’t promise that it won’t bring a little tear. But genuinely I love to bring you happiness and sometimes educate you on things I’ve learnt that I think will value you.

Write from the heart to touch someone’s heart, it makes it all worthwhile.

Bedtime thoughts

So from the title you can probably guess that I’m in my bed curled up. Not comfortably because of surgery but curled up all the same.

So I just watched this programme on channel 4 called naked beach. Getting 3 individuals to have body confidence and maybe by the end of the week (episode) you see if they’ve built up the courage and confidence to bear all. There is 8 positive mentors I guess you could call them that.

It gave me food for thought, about how to appreciate my own body. I know it’s going to always have a bag on it but to love my body I have to look past my extra bit I have now and embrace my scars, stretch marks and my wobbly bits. I always think it’s better to have a bit of curvage about you.

Once it’s lost its swollen /bloatedness I’ll be taking a pic for my scrapbook for sure.

Be proud of all your body can do. Celebrate it.